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Don't be such a doomsday prophet. Lots of men remarry and go on to have happy lives.  Obviously a new sibling means older siblings are short changed. Inheritance is divided equally between the children.
I am sure they will all be fine.[/quote]

Lots of men indeed remarry and go on to live happy lives.  But not that many men disengage so quickly from his own kids (as discussed in the earlier thread about his weird plans for custody -- hence the short changing his kids)  *and* agree to impregnate his new woman while still living under the same rush as his wife. [/quote]
But if the timing makes sense for them, then what is wrong with it
And custody plans change as kids get older. Men do not need to disengage from their kids. Life goes on [/quote]

You don't have all the background. This guy is still living at home and has shown no real signs of actually moving out. Their supposed plan is for the kids to stay with the mom FT, then dad will come stay at the house for visits. The new "wife" says she doesn't want any part in step parenting so the arrangement seems fine to her. Obviously this will become a trainwreck when the new "wife" decides she doesn't want him to leave the house for long stretches after she has the baby. And also prevents the kids from having any relationship with their half sibling - their dad would basically have a secret second family that they are not allowed to be part of. Fucked up all around.[/quote]

Well now, that is a train wreck.  No way would I want my kids to be in the middle of that.  Sad that this lady doesn't even want to know her potential husband's kids.  Crazy that a father would be okie dokie with his potential new wife shunning his kids like that.  And then to add an innocent baby and possibly grieving children into the mix.  Yuck all around.[/quote]

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