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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]OP again.  This is not totally out of the blue.  We've been here for 9 years and he has always said he'd love to move back to San Diego but I always kind if ignored it thinking he's a govt contractor and the work is generally here.  I know I was wrong to ignore it but I have worked hard to build us a life here and I think it's a great life.  [/quote]

Herein lies the problem. For your entire marriage he has mentioned moving to CA.  Instead of you discussing it the first few times he mentioned it, you ignored it, wow that was real mature. I would've taken your silence as agreement!  Now that its doable you are acting like a child.

I get not wanting to move, my husband wants to move too. But as soon as he brings up a place that doesn't work for me, I let him know. However, you can't relegate him to an entire career in one city because ALL of your family is there, how selfish. [/quote]

I thought about this and just as OP knew DH was a southern Cal person, he knew that OP is close to her family.  I think you can be close to your family and want to be able to see your family easily and still maintain a healthy relationship with your spouse. I see so many people in MoCo with parents and siblings nearby.

Does DH have siblings or lots of friends in Southern Cal?[/quote]

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