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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]OP says she wants her man to just decide; but you just know there are times when he chose "incorrectly" and she tore him a new asshole. OP's DH has undoubtedly been inundated with that "happy wife, happy life" bullshit, and he's coming from a place of trying to be accommodating and not be one of those male chauvinist pigs he's probably heard so much about.

One thing this post makes clear is that "communication" is a trap. Guys - keep your fucking problems to yourself. Telling your woman about your fears and uncertainties is sure to make her vagina clang shut instantly. [/quote]

No. This post makes clear that many couples have communication issues. OP sounds like she is having a hard time articulating her needs to her husband, which may be a result of her belief that he will not take her complaints well. That's understandable, even if her belief is inaccurate.

This post also makes clear the depressing degree that many people on this board believe that gender roles, as outlined by the society in which we live, are immutable and something that everyone cares about and believes in to the same degree. Also that it is impossible to be a good lover if you are also a nice person.

OP, you sound like a good partner who is exhausted from being married to someone who is depressed and professionally stagnant. If you were the only one who had issues with his stagnation, that would be different, but it sounds like he is having trouble executing plans. I have this issue at the moment myself, and my solution in Q1 of 2014 is to get on an anti-depressant and see if that doesn't help lift the fog of exhaustion and uncertainty enough for me to do some of the things I want to do. I can't speak for my personal success, as I only just started today, but you might talk to DH about a solution like this.[/quote]

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