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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]How should I address the issues with DH? Nothing I am doing is working. 
Tonight I took the kids to a light show. DH stayed home. Tomorrow we have a kids daytime party with friends and neighbors. I don't think DH will come.  Staying home is even worse - he definitely will not play a game or build Legos. 
Many things I can cover - but there are things I can't. I am already strategizing about how I might get DH to help DS with the Pinewood Derby car. It's not that I can't do it - I am sure I can figure it out - it's that my son notices it is a father -son thing and already notices I am one of the very few moms at cub scouts. (My husband has gone twice but complained incessantly before, during and after so I just started going myself.)
I have begged, cajoled, tried to be matter of fact , tried to be forceful, sentimental, everything. 
I can leave, of course, and hope to find them a better dad but really is that going to happen?
I have three kids (almost) - I really doubt I will have many suitors. 
I am a full time WOHM, but my job is quite flexible and I telework frequently. So I am at all school events and I am always home before 5. I know my kids feel love and enthusiasm from me - it's just alot of pressure to feel like I always have to compensate for him. [/quote]

So why did you get pregnant again?  Honest question...was it planned?  I mean you already have two so the whole "so the siblings will have each other" is kind of a stupid argument. [/quote]

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