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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]@16:48

[b]spending time with a person isnt a binary decision between getting married and "just someone to sleep with"

there are other options in case you forgot.[/b]

ideal for me?  a woman 24 years old who is looking for a something semi serious but not yet ready for marriage.

if she were my daughter i'd never advocate she do that, but these are grown ups making their own decisions.

kids don't have be nasty baggage, its funny you put it that way.  with shared custody, time over laps can be minimal and geeze, maybe the kids are lovely and she enjoys spending time with them?

serious question for you: what year was it when you got married in your 20's?  part of my thesis has an assumption that their is trend in place that is increasing the age gaps which seem acceptable to people currently.

this is for a lot of reasons but the two main ones are the feminization of men and the poor economy which has had a serious negative impact on the ability of young males to evolve into men.

its a push and a pull.  guys in their 20's arent nearly as attractive to women in their 20's and men in their late 30's and early 40's are increasingly focused on staying fit, healthy, energetic, etc.

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which ones - like "waste your best years in a relationship that is not going anywhere"?

i find it funny that you are basically admitting that women you are looking for are not the type that you would like your daughter to be like. so you understand that those women are not doing well for themselves by being with men like you (and i agree!). and that is, btw, because those women are at best second-tier women.

your reasons for why you will remain attractive to youg women for many years are frankly, delusional. they sound very much like feminist BS about looks not being important, having babies in mid forties etc, etc. at the end of the day, there exists biological reality which, though not identical, is as relevant for men as it is for women. you can stay fit and wear nice suits all you want (just like women in their forites are often fit and beautiful and all that) and yet your mere age is going to severely constrict your options. it looks like you personally have experienced increased desirability in your thirties and are extrapolating that trend (or at least believe the level will be maintained) into your forties and fifties... but it doesn't work that way.[/quote]

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