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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]OP, I was totally in your shoes at 26.  I saw a therapist and talked about some of my issues and hesitations that kept me from dating. (I am Indian American, if that matters).  Dating sucks and no one enjoys it. You have to either reject someone, or get rejected.

I joined match and started winking at people left and right.  I went on a date with one of those guys a couple weeks after joining match and married him less than a year later. go online and start "practicing". Match.com is your friend.  I seriously winked at like, 50 guys, two responded and I married one of them. One (super awesome) guy is all you need.[/quote]

Oh and FWIW, I was also one of those "fat" girls you were probably puzzled by, and my husband was far more attractive than me when we met...I had just thought that no one would want to date me because I was 30 lbs overweight, but I was totally wrong. (I also garnered interest on shaadi.com, but none of those guys worked out)[/quote]

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