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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]OP here. I am so heartened by all the wonderful replies I've gotten in this thread from women who are like me. I'm so happy for all of you and so encouraged that all of you got past it and found wonderful men.  :)

I'm not going to lie, I'm very scared at the prospect of changing. I also have to figure out how to let go of a certain undercurrent of anger and bitterness I feel over all of this. I hope I get there.[/quote]

As you know, you've received some great advice on this thread.  The only thing I can think to add is to be the person you want to be with.  Make a list of all the things you want in a guy (personality-wise) and then start being those things yourself.  You want a guy who is confident and likeable?  Be those things yourself.  You want a sharp dresser?  Start dressing sharp yourself.  You want someone who is polite to everyone all the time?  You do the same.  People say that "opposites attract," but in reality, people are most attracted to people who are similar to themselves.  Obviously you don't want everything to be the same, but pick some key things that would be deal-breakers if the guy didn't have them.  It'll help you really think about what you value most in a relationship, and attract people who value those same things.[/quote]

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