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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Some people are not good people, OP.  You can fertilize an egg but that doesn't make you a father.  Obviously it's not you because your half-sibling was not parented either.

Walk away from this person.  Permanently.  An empty well cannot give water.  A poisoned well cannot give life.  Anything he brings into your life and your child's life will be toxic.  Do not look to him for fathering.  Find other sources of fathering and grandfathering.  [/quote]

THIS THIS THIS!

my father is mentally ill. He abandoned all 3 off us and I can assure you he never lost a single night of sleep over it. he is SICK, he was born bad, just a rotten apple.

I've left him in the dust. I will never look back. I look forward and love the man I married who is the dead opposite of my father. I'm focused on what I can control which is to provide a stable loving him for my kids.  My dad is a loser and in hindsight, I'm way better off without him.[/quote]

Thanks. What puzzled me is that I never perceived him ( I don't call him dad or father) as a loser. I just assumed something went wrong and it was my being born that was the catalyst.so I was confused.  I think I am a ok person and my child is beautiful in every way. Why doesn't he want us? I have given up. I'm sure the next time I might see him will be at his funeral. I already imagine my brother calling and me consoling my brother on his loss. I will probably feel nothing. That is the sad part- the empty feeling - too disappointed to be sad or angry.[/quote]

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