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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]OP here, I had almost a week to process what happened. We are from a "loud" culture so yelling isn't a deal breaker. Treating a customer service person badly is a big red flag. I added a big tip (from his wallet) so I do think he understands he crossed the line and he apologized to me. I think I will watch us very carefully but this alone will not make me end it with him. [/quote] OP, you are making a mistake. I am from a very loud culture, and this guy is a jerk. he yelled to the waiter (even in a loud culture this is a no-no), and then at you, was mean all evening. this would be the dealbreaker. the fact that he apologized later is simply part of an abuser pattern. abusers abuse, and then apologize. if this is life you want, go ahead. was your first DH a jerk too? if so, you should wonder why you end up with this type of people. good luck[/quote]
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