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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]It is shame that so many women have such a negative view of their DHs and being intimate with them.  Every marriage hits a rough patch but geez,  I question why some of you are even still married. [/quote]

It's not about viewing sex negatively, it's about being tired sometimes and not always being in the mood.  [/quote]

Feeling like sex with your husband is a sacrifice, a chore, a duty, a giving in to selfish wants, is about viewing sex negatively and is completely different than occasionally being tired or not in the mood in an otherwise happy, healthy sex life.[/quote]

When your husband constantly expects sex at times when you are tired and not in the mood, it quickly begins to feel a chore and a sacrifice.  Why is that difficult to understand?[/quote]

How often do you initiate? How often are you not tired and in the mood when he asks? How often are you having sex?

If you have an active, healthy sex life and he still expects sex on the occasional time that you are tired / not in the mood then the problem is him and I can see that feeling like a chore. If on the other hand you don't often initiate, don't have an active sex life and are always tired or never in the mood, then the problem is you.[/quote]

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