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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous] Female in her mid 40s here. Married 17 years. Had a sexual spark at the beginning. What killed it for me is that my H has a lower drive than I do, so I initiate 99% of the time. I'm not sure how much I buy into the "alpha/beta" stuff, but men, take it from me: never initiating is desire killing beta behavior. We still do it once a week or so, but I've long since stopped relying on him to be my entire sexual outlet. Once I gave up trying to get him to have sex as much as I needed it, our overall relationship improved; but everyone, male and female, in a long term relationship should be warned: if you chronically undersex your partner, they are going to be very vulnerable to attention and affairs from other live human beings. Going solo to get what you need is ultimately not satisfactory.[/quote] Do you mean you have a FWB?[/quote]
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