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[quote=Anonymous]This is a fascinating and eye opening thread. Lack of sexual chemistry has always been a deal breaker for me and I've had my share of relationships with men who were nice enough but no sexual spark. While I am not married, I always thought that ... while the initial spark was bound to fade ... it was nonetheless important to have that to start out with, that way you would have something to return to/remember even ... sort of a reference point or something that might come back from time to time.

So I see the women who say they never had sexual chemistry with their mates as very different from those who once had it but are turned off by weight gain or just the stress of day to day life. Personally I would think that the second situation might be easier to turn around, but who knows. In the long-term relationships I've had where the sex was good, even if it faded, a real warmth, desire to cuddle etc, remained, wheras if there never was good sex, the relationship turned bitter and resentful and even closeness became a challenge.[/quote]

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