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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]No, I don't have experience in "abusive relationships" which is precisely why I have perspective - a normal marriage to compare this mess to. I have read all the posts. OP is extremely annoying and obnoxious person, my husband wouldn't put up three days with this. I actually read this to him and we laughed how bad some men have it. Her husband is no better, mind you, but there is a reason why they are a couple. You want to make it all about the husband, but that just doesn't fly.[/quote]

Your "perspective" is total BS and based on almost nothing. How do you peg the OP as "extremely annoying and obnoxious"? Because she wrote a long post about a really scary thing that had just happened to her? Were your comments about how she cares what her friends think based on the fact that she's ashamed she put herself in this position, doesn't want her family to think less of her, is embarrassed by her husband's behavior when she's out with friends? Do you think it's appropriate for one spouse to prevent the other from establishing friendships? It sounds like you actually have no idea what you're talking about and have chosen to be hurtful in the general direction of someone who, while she clearly made some bad choices and is suffering for them, is actually in a really scary place and doesn't need this sort of thing from a stranger.[/quote]

Here are some reasons

1) OP never lets things go. years later, she still holds a grudge for being woken up. Normal people forget and move on
2) OP insisted on going on a trip with friends despite her husband being strongly against it, not liking her friends, and having two small children. She was supposed to let it go, but didn't want to, which screams entitlement mentality
3 Op repeatedly brings her accomplishments into conversations where they are totally irrelevant. Chances are, she does this with her husband and, chances are, he is not very educated
4) OP has hysterical, over the top reaction to her husbands anger episodes. She actually wanted to call 911 because she couldn't get a good night sleep. her husband never actually hit her, yet she had police at her home, and his career (and therefore family finances as well) potentially destroyed

Etc, etc, there were smaller clues as well. [/quote]

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