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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]That is a very good question.. and believe I have thought many times of that... you know.. "what if he was able to get his papers ., would that change  my mind?" ... honestly.. I don't think it would.. because..first , he does not have enough education to be able to get a job that would pay a decent salary, and second... we are so opposite in our personalities.. I know opposites attract, but we are way beyond opposite lol!!.. and I feel I am done with his calm attitude.. none ambitious.. and I honestly don't trust him enough to take care of the bills and stuff. I am the type that is on the ball with everything.. bills paid on time.. things taken care of.. he is not like that.. and I think that bored me. [/quote]

If he doesn't have the education to get a good paying job, it pretty much makes him working a moot point.  It sucks that he was dishonest about his immigration status, but if you knew he didn't have the education for a career, how could you have expected him to provide for you to be a SAHM?

Honestly, if he's being a  great SAHD, it seems like he's making the most beneficial contribution to the familý.  Do you know how much it costs to put 2 kids in daycare?

Does he take care of other stuff, like errands, housekeeping, etc.?

While I do sympathize with you, I have to say, if this post was a bit reversed, and OP was the husband complaining that all his wife does is SAHM and do odd jobs for extra money, people would go CRAZY defending SAHMs.   [/quote]

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