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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]I think it is unfair to bio kids to divert resources. Especially if you are working and don't get to spend much time with them.[/quote] By that perspective any child after one, bio or otherwise diverts resources.[/quote] I agree. [/quote] If a parent cannot provide basic sustenance and education, I don't think adopting more kids makes sense. But I don't think inheritance or getting a bmw for graduation is a reason not to have more kids -- I'd be a heck of a lot more worried about the values being transmitted to the kid rather than what they are getting or not getting.[/quote] From what I know, adopted kids almost always require lots of time, attention, money for therapy, etc. This is what I call resource diverting. Maybe not BMW, but would be nice to use this money to pay for college for your bio kid(s), etc. [/quote]
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