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[quote=Anonymous]PP again. I am not suggesting "enabling" him. The goal is to have him become independent and not need help. Ideally that would have happened before he turned 30 but it didn't. Continuing to do what hasn't work (providing money for classes without any conditions) is almost certainly not the way to go. I am not a professional. Unlike many of the other people who posted on this thread I don't think I know the answer of what to do. I am suggesting turning to a professional to discuss the best way to achieve that goal with an adult child who has been diagnosed in the past with a medical/psychological condition (ADD). In my non-professional opinion, there is a danger that just cutting him off could lead to depression and even suicide. I suggest that both the parents and the son get some professional help and figure out the best way to help the son grow up and become an independent, functioning adult which is what all parents should want for their children. [/quote]
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