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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]OP, get a job. Goodness.[/quote] Getting a job won't change the fact that the husband has checked out as a dad. We are answering the wrong question--not if is it fair to the DH or DW, but if it is fair to the CHILDREN. And it's not. DH needs to step up as a dad before they're grown and gone. Both my husband and I work full time, and split the labor, but we both know the kid comes first in our attention. There is no checking out and downtime until bedtime. Becausse we are parents, not just spouses. Some of these posts here suggest working parents can hide behind their jobs and be basically absentee to their kids because they bring home the bacon. Doesn't work that way. The SAH spouse may have to take care of the housework, but when you are there, you clean up your own damned mess and take of those kids, too.[/quote]
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