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[quote=Anonymous]Perhaps someone already said this but this is not an affair, it is a relashionship. MYOB.

She'll grow out of it. I dated 36 yr olds when I was 21 and again at 26. I'm now happily married to a man 9 months older than me. Both times I dated older men, they were execs in a position of power, but not in my department.

When I was 21 I learned that you can take a college girl to the orchestra and fancy restaurants, but you can't take a 36 yr old to a party with your friends. Playing grown up will get old and she'll want to get back to being 22.

I had a fun time and don't regret it. However I grew up in a college town and the advice my mom always gave about older men was "you don't understand now or won't figure it out right away, but there is a reason girls their own age aren't dating them" just like college students and HS students, adult men who date young women who are not yet "launched" into adulthood are likely immature or enjoy being adored and seen as experienced and sophisticated. Trust me, once your daughter does her summer internships / clerking and meets some Judges or Big law partners, she'll be done with her professor and will start looking for someone ambitions and successful  her own age.
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