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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]And I'm not arguing, I just want to hear. As I said, the fact that you know happy students is helpful. I'm not out to "prove" a point, just to investigate a common theme I've heard.[/quote] First of all, I think you should know that there are at least 2 of us who have posted in response to your question about the happiness factor. I'm the earlier PP, and I have never heard Swarthmore described as competitive or cold. The current students and alums I know are not that way at all. (These include close friends and high school teammates of my children and close friends of mine, including one who has been a friend for 40 years.) All of these folks would probably describe Swarthmore as a demanding school with an intensely academic vibe. Would your child find that too competitive? If so, then maybe Swarthmore isn't the right school for him/her. That's not a judgment of your child, so please don't interpret it that way. [/quote] I'm not OP and this is helpful. DC is highly academic but doesn't like a competitive atmosphere. Its interesting how there are some schools that can thread that needle and provide a heavily academic environment without a sense of competition. And then there are schools that have a rep for being intensely competitive (Johns Hopkins, at least by rep). So, thank you.[/quote] I'm glad this was helpful to you. As you look at other schools, I would suggest that you and your son try to be more specific about what he's looking for in a school. Framing the question as "happy" v. "unhappy" won't be as helpful because it's so subjective; more helpful would be to describe a school culture that is collaborative, rather than comptetitive. What might be most helpful, however, is describing your son and asking whether this kind of student would fare well at X school, or, conversely, asking what kind of student thrives at X. For example, the PP who described a friend's son who loved Swarthmore as sociable and interested in others, but not a party animal, offered a very helpful insight along these lines. [/quote]
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