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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Tha was my plan, but fate smiled on me and DH dropped dead of a heart attack at age 40. Misery over.

Thank you, God.[/quote]

Not buying it. [/quote]

may be true, but one of the most frustrating things for me is that I am insured for 1.2 million - came from work and COBRA because I am disabled, and he is only insured for 2 million, where 250k goes to my mother in law.  As I said, I am disabled and cannot drive and given that now he picks the kids up and drops them off at school and helps them with their homework (I have virtually no authority or credibility with my kids on academic issues because they think he is so smart and I am bad at math) and I have been asking him to increase the amount of his life insurance for about 3 years not because I want to kill him but because as I get more and more disabled and it has become obvious to me that I would need a lot of money to take care of the kids if he were not around.  And clean up the house.  Since he fired our nanny and I got really sick the house has become such a disaster that my children cannot even have their friends over to spend the night or for playdates and when people ask us over to dinner we cannot reciprocate so we have very few friends left as a couple and my kids do not get invited to many birthday parties... He continues to refuse to put things out for charity even when I arrange to have organizations come to the house etc unless it is just my clothers OR he gets around to going through absolutely every piece of junk or stuff we do not need and he NEVER has the time to do that for some reason before the things have to be left on our doorstep for these folks to take them away...[/quote]

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