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[quote=Anonymous]I'm mid 40's DH . DW and I do have sex though it comes and goes in spurts but that is all we do together. No kissing, hugging handholding, etc.  I have tried all I know to do.  Suggested counseling, workshops, clergy etc.  DW wants none of it. I cook, clean, shop, compliment, etc.  DW found FB 5 years ago and our marriage went downhill fast.  I used to argue with DW about time spent on FB.  Now I just avoid her.  We got married too young and I realized too late that we had nothing in common.  I don't respect her as an intellectual equal.  DW thinks I'm too stuffy.  We are a match made in hell. Not much yelling and screaming anymore from me.  Just detachment.  She has an outburst now and again but eventually fizzes out again to détente.  Unfortunately DC's are comfortable in our home and routines.  They have friends and are happy.  I am SOOOO OUTTAA HERRE when last child heads to college in 5 years.  I am bitter and unhappy.  After a particular bad patch I made a choice 8 years ago to keep it together for DC's sake.  I tend to regret that more than not now.  I hope it benefits DC's.  Thanks for the forum[/quote]

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