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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Every time you think about him, stop, and think about your DH.  Make a list of all the things your DH does, and the ways he is, that are great.  Keep looking at it.  Have more sex with him - branch out and do different stuff.  Tell him you want more of a connection.  Work on your marriage.  Stay away form the guy, and don't let yourself fantasize.  It will go away.  Watch out, it is a slippery slope.  [/quote]

I know.  And I do.  The funny thing is that when I listed out all of the things I like about work guy, they are all qualities DH has.  And I know that work guy comes with his own baggage and that even if I did act, it would turn weird and the luster would wear off anyway.  Trust me - I know.  I think one of the big things is that DH and I rarely have time to talk anymore.  And when we do, it's about our kids or the house or some other mundane thing that has to be taken care of.  With work guy, when we do have time to talk it's about politics and the world and interests, etc etc because we can.  I miss being able to talk to DH like that, and I've told him.  He knows.  We are trying to make more time to spend together - getting a babysitter more often and whatnot.  I'm not letting it fester - I was just bewildered when it all came back this week after going away for four months.  Not sure why that is, other than that he allowed himself to be vulnerable and confide some things in me.  I'm a heel.  I know.[/quote]

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