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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]OP you sound like an idiot. Obviously all these months have done nothing for your maturity. Why would you want to stay in contact with him after you leave. If you cared about your marriage you would have done like so many PPs said before. Do not hang out with him, keep everything short and work related, turn down all invites. You don't want this to stop. God forbid your husband messes up and makes you mad one day and you go running to your "friend" and doom your marriage for good, not to mention your children.[/quote]

Well, in one instance we had to meet clients for drinks and they were over an hour late.  So I couldn't really get out of that one.  The other instance was a moment of weakness.

You're right - I won't be able to stay in touch, though he is the kind of person I would generally seek out as a friend were it not for the attraction.  But it's not like I'm inviting him out for personal dinners/drink dates, and I can't avoid him altogether because we work together.  There are frequent occasions where we have to meet clients as a team.  Other than that, though, I do try to keep my distance at the office.   I don't stop by just to "chat" unless I have a work-related reason, and in most of those cases I'll simply email unless it is something that is better discussed - i.e. problem solving or the like.  And trust me - my husband makes me mad plenty and I haven't gone running anywhere.  And all I have to do is look at my children to know I can never act on my feelings.  So you're wrong - I'm plenty mature.  But I'm also human.  [/quote]

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