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[quote=Anonymous]My marriage went through this phase after we had kids to, except my husband wasn't a good father, merely a good provider. I felt like there were two seperate groups of people living in the house. Me and the kids in one group, husband in the other. It was rough, and lonely, and i wasnt in love with him. i didnt even like him anymore, and I thought about leaving. Alot. I never did leave though, I figured marriage is forever and my only option was to suck it up, focus on my kids and hope for the best. Well, that didnt work and after years of that behavior, it led to both of us being unfaithful. He had a physical affair, I had an emotional one. Dealing with that kind of heartache was a wake up call for us both. 
We decided to stay together and rebuild our relationship. We started making time for each other, doing special things for each other, finding a sitter a making date nights a priority. It's so important to rebuild a connection. We started making time for sex, even if I didnt want to, it was part of the process and it worked. Our kids are 8 and 5 now and the marriage is good, not perfect, but better. It was a long road but worth it. It's important to me to raise my kids in a happy 2 parent household, so even if my marriage takes constant upkeep to make that happen, it will be worth it in the end.
I don't understand people who get married, take those vows, promise another person that you will be their partner forever then just give up when it gets rough. Life is full of ups and downs, some of those will be in your marriage.[/quote]

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