Reply to Questions for any Adult adoptees on here

Forum Index » Parenting -- Special Concerns

Reply to "Questions for any Adult adoptees on here "

Subject:

Emoticons





More smilies

Text Color: Font: Close Marks

[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]No, you clearly don't understand the issue. Let's see if we can simplify this so you can comprehend:

1. Jim-Bob and Michelle have a bio baby, Marybio.
 
2. Then they adopt Susieadoptee via open adoption.

3. Then they have another bio baby, Jennybio.

Susieadoptee's bio parents and grandparents have an ongoing and close relationship with Susieadoptee since the adoption is very open.

Grandparents visit the family home regularly to see Susieadoptee and also spend time with Marybio and Jennybio, who also consider them grandparents.

However, grandparents have stated they opened a college fund for Susieadoptee (their biological grandchild)

But grandparents are NOT doing the same for Marybio and Jennybio, as it is not in within their financial planning capability.

Got it?[/quote]
Yes, I get it now.
This is very rare . Sounds like step parent drama.
Reality is that teen mom Jennybio gives baby away and she is from a dysfunctional family in the ghetto that has always struggled financially and mom April is living with in ad out of prison step father Butch.
Reality is that if Jennybio had had parents who are suddenly able to provide financially for a grandchild, then the kid would never have been relinquished in the first place.
Most open adoptions close because the adoptive parents just find being reminded about their infertility painful and are somewhat disgusted with the bio parents and that family.

Most of the time promises about future college funds are just empty promises. Sometimes even in bio families. I would never expect the bio grandparents to suddenly be on the hook for college costs of all the kids in the family [/quote]

Options

	Disable HTML in this message
	Disable BB Code in this message
	Disable smilies in this message

Review message

Search Recent Topics Hottest Topics