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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]No, you clearly don't understand the issue. Let's see if we can simplify this so you can comprehend:

1. Jim-Bob and Michelle have a bio baby, Marybio.
 
2. Then they adopt Susieadoptee via open adoption.

3. Then they have another bio baby, Jennybio.

Susieadoptee's bio parents and grandparents have an ongoing and close relationship with Susieadoptee since the adoption is very open.

Grandparents visit the family home regularly to see Susieadoptee and also spend time with Marybio and Jennybio, who also consider them grandparents.

However, grandparents have stated they opened a college fund for Susieadoptee (their biological grandchild)

But grandparents are NOT doing the same for Marybio and Jennybio, as it is not in within their financial planning capability.

Got it?[/quote]

NP. I have never heard of such a thing. My sister is adopted. She was included in every single one of our grandparents' wills, just as every grandchild was. She was never treated differently.

Her bio grandparents aren't around, but her bio mom is. I would think she'd be included in her bio mom's will. (She was given up for adoption because she didn't want to care for a child at 16). I am not jealous of anything she gets from her bio mom, nor would I care. I also wouldn't care if she received a huge inheritance from her bio grandparents, even if it was millions. I'm happy with my own life. Now if our parents (her adopted parents) treated us differently in their will, we'd both raise hell. Set amounts to grandchildren are fine, but my sibling and I better have equal amounts![/quote]

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