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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]I don’t think keeping track of the kids’ activity schedules and when they need to be picked up is non-essential. The vacations might be, but the kids’ schedules are not.[/quote]

Why are you doing this in the first place? We have a shared calendar— all activities go on that calendar, and we discuss who is responsible for what at the start of each season/camp/activity. What is there to keep track of? [/quote]

Who puts them on the calendar?  Who keeps track of when soccer practice is switched from Wednesday to Monday?  Who modifies it when cheer is moved to 5:30-7:30 for one day instead of 5-7?  Which days kid is “called” for play rehearsal and which days not?  It is a never-ending stream of complex scheduling.

My DH does just as much if not more of it than I do, but it’s a lot to keep track of.  And we do not always have the same driving/pickup schedule week to week because of work travel/obligations that don’t fall consistently on the same day of the week. It would really suck if he didn’t consider it any of his business to be involved in making our kids’ schedules work and getting them where they need to be when they need to be there. [/quote]

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