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[quote=Anonymous]I had wanted children for years but the high cost of living in DC and the lack of family support here hindered us from trying until later. I was finally pg with my first at 39, and all my co-workers who had had children later said of course you get the amnio just to make sure, but it will be fine. Of course, their's were fine, mine was T21. I was devastated because I truly felt that wouldn't happen. Of course, that was a stupid conclusion. Anyway, my dh and I had predecided that we would terminate for Downs, and that is what we did. It was hard, and it's still hard, but I do not regret my decision. We went on to have two beautiful, happy and healthy children. Someone said something earlier about a Down child having something wrong with their head. That is incorrect. There is something wrong with every cell in their body, and it is something that will never get better. I am not advocating, just telling my story. It is a place I would not wish for anyone to be because I was there. We console ourselves that we would not have had our particular children if we had kept our first because each egg in your body brings a unique child. [/quote]
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