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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]I would let this go.

He knew the other person a lot longer.  Plus his relationship with you may have changed his thinking in unknowable ways, good or bad.

He probably told you what he thought he should say...that it was up to you what to do.

The fact that you decided the way you did suggests you weren't madly in love with him.  And his reaction suggests he wasn't madly in love with you.  So you parted.

You can complain a little about how unfair the universe is but I don't think you lost out on a great dad and husband.  Move on.[/quote]

I was madly in love with him though. I decided what I did because I thought he didn’t want the baby. [/quote]

Honey, you’re better off. I’m your alternate future, and it isn’t pretty.  I had an honest conversation with my fiancé when I became pregnant unexpectedly (while using 2 forms of birth control!). At the time ex said he was excited and wanted to continue the pregnancy, but after the birth it became clear he was not into the marriage or parenting. What a disaster for me and the kid.

Count yourself lucky you escaped this guy. Do some individual therapy (it’s a big betrayal) and work on creating your best life. [/quote]

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