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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Once every couple of months in practice. We had some dry spells for many years. But I am much happier now that we do it at least once a month and often weekly. I actually attribute it to cutting down on drinking. Drinking made me too tired and gave him performance issues. Now we can go to bed early after the kids and have a good time. [/quote]

I do think my DH and I would have sex more often if he drank less. He's not a heavy drinker but it's pretty much every night and I do think it contributes to performance issues. But the real issue is that he is chronically sleep deprived. His commutes awful and he goes to bed too late. I'm okay with pretty minimal sex though. I'd be okay with more, but I'm also fine with what we have, which is very occasional sex.

Like others I just value a lot of other things above sex, which makes me pretty flexible on the issue. On nights we don't have sex (most), I do evening yoga, read a book, and go to bed early. Honestly, it's great -- I still get a physical release, I feel relaxed and happy when I go to sleep. I don't feel as connected to him, but I do feel connected to myself, which has become more important to me in recent years thanks to work and parenting stress. So it's all good.[/quote]

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