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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]I understand her not wanting you all there, too much commotion with small kids, DIL is not even blood family etc, but she shouldn’t be so open about it.
I live close to my dad, my brother visits yearly and my SIL insists on bringing the family and making it a family vacation. My dad doesn’t have a lot of rapport with her or his grandkids unfortunately; my brother and I would just appreciate spending some low key time with dad, but we can’t really say anything because it would be rude. [/quote]

Your attitude toward your sil and children is horrible. It's childish and small minded to treat your brother's family this way. They are family. Your expectation that he will be around you without his family is awful. The whole "blood family" is so backwards and ignorant. Grow up. [/quote]

I don’t treat her and I don’t expect of her. It’s just my wish she would not come with my brother when he visits our father. It all becomes about her and the kids and where they want to travel and what they want to see if she comes. It is good as a whole family reunion but it would be so much easier to just hang out very low key with my father, maybe my brother and me time as well. 
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