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[quote=Anonymous]So many of these posts are bizarre. It is almost always better for a child to know who their biological father is and have a relationship with them than be conceived from a sperm bank, not know who their father is or anything about their paternal family/health history.

Attraction is great but I firmly believe attraction can grow over the years. Absolutely women should settle because so many times what ends up happening is they think they settled but the husband ended up being a fantastic spouse and father.

A friend lamented not finding someone she could watch jeopardy with and go with to bookstores and readings , etc. She told me when she had too much to drink she thought she was settling bevause she was so much smarter than her husband who owned a blue collar trade company and who didnt go to college and she had a graduate degree from an top university.

Fast forward 10 years and he is the one who coaches all their sports teams, does all the grunt work like filling up her car with gas, brings her coffee to her bedside every morning, lets her sleep in and/or read the paper in bed on Sundays while he takes the kids to his parents for breakfast.

She is now madly in love with him and finds him really attractive. Even if he only djd a couple of the things he does, it makes her life far easier than if the kids didnt have a dad.[/quote]

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