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[quote=Anonymous][quote]Wut.

Do you have to "go with the flow" to have a sexual relationship with your spouse? Do they have to go with the flow to have one with you?

You can disagree with your spouse on issues and still have a relationship with them. And disagreeing should not be taken as picking a fight.[/quote]

[quote]Yes. You have to just go with it on little stuff.
If my husband wants to start drinking tea instead of coffee and thinks the new Fallout game looks cool and is glad that he got out of work early and thinks his boss should write clearer emails and thinks his friend’s whitewater rafting trip sounded like fun, then I listen and agree and ask pertinent questions.

If he thinks our 16 year old is ready to take the highway to get to school, and I think he isn’t driving safely and needs more practice, then I will speak up.[/quote]

So, for you, the answer is "Yes, you have 'go with it' to have a sexual relationship with your spouse"?

Your post rambles. However, you seem to be making a point that you do not need to respond antagonistically to certain remarks from your spouse, and that people should gauge their response based on the potential impact of the statement. How is this not true of almost every interaction you will have with any human? [/quote]

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