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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]I almost feel like it would be better for your sibling to be spending the money on themselves rather than your mother. Like she needs the break and the weekly massage and therapy for what she’s been doing. It would probably make everyone happier than spending it for someone to visit on your sister’s days that she can’t make it to visit. [/quote]

My sister doesn't need money from me to spend on herself.  She has plenty of her own money, an excellent pension, a $2 million house with no mortgage, and no children.  She only works because she wants to.  She chose before to take on caring for our mother in her home, which the rest of us would not have done, but we still sent money for supplemental caregivers.  She's now choosing the nursing home, and it's one right next to her (part-time) job.  Now she can give herself a break whenever she chooses; it just means on those days our mother might not have visitors.  The rest of us are ok with that.  Only she isn't.  So giving her money for therapy and massages solves nothing.       [/quote]

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