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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]You could always move home and be there in person. [/quote] NP. Please, why would OP do that? OP is supposed to uproot her life and family for her 90yo mother who lives, and is being cared for, in a nursing home? There is no need for OP to move there and there is likely no need to pay someone just to visit with the mother either, but this is the situation the sister has created. [/quote] OP here. This, exactly. And, again, I'm not sitting here saying my sister needs to do any of this at all. She's the one who has decided to take it all on. As you might have read in one of my earlier posts, I have a brother who's local and he doesn't even visit our mother. He gives my sister money -- less than me -- and that's it. This is my sister's decision and I feel no guilt about it and cannot be shamed about it either.[/quote]
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