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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Men think they are [b]entitled to someone who is more attractive than they are[/b], and women think they are entitled to someone who has more money than they do. [/quote]Indeed, I am.  Why wouldn't I be entitled to an attractive woman? One of us has to be the less attractive one. Why does that have to be her and not me.  Women say all the time that looks are not as important to them as they are for men.  They value other qualities in a man a lot more than looks.  Is that true, or not?  Either way, I've always been glad to put it to the test. [/quote]

You are not entitled to someone who wouldn’t want you. I’m not entitled to have the most expensive car or the youngest man and I realize that. 
[b]Women need to be attracted to choose you[/b]. It’s pointless to pursue in a way, should be a two-way street.

[/quote]Yeah, no shit Sherlock.  Entitled, is an over-used word these days especially by women.  Indeed, I feel that I'm entitled to a good life if I put in the effort to achieve it.  I'm also entitled to happiness and that includes having a partner who may be out of my league by my judgement while I may be perfect, or at least good enough in her estimation.  It's for her to decide of course but I'm not going to limit myself.  Women certainly don't and it's normal for them to pursue high-value men.  When it comes to men doing the same, why the derision?[/quote]

The issue is that you operate in terms of “high value” in relationships. Your thinking is clouded by your idea of a perfect woman. And you almost don’t care how she feels about you - possessing her as an object is your main goal. Eg dating is feeding into your ego .

Men like you end up with pretty women who don’t want to sleep with them. Then they complain at no sex in marriage etc.

You gave up on finding mutuality because you just settled for pretty body that wants your resources. 
 
It’s very easy to see partner feels about you , you just need to be observant. You just don’t care

People like you will never be happy. Because beauty comes and goes - you will always “upgrade” [/quote]Wow, you really have me figured out, don't you?  You sure like to project.  Hey, dumbass, the whole thread is about "high-value" people.  How else do you define someone who is out of your league?  That said, I never defined her as you have defined it for me, putting words in my mouth.  I also never used the word, perfect, or even pretty.  And when did I say I don't care how she feels about me?  How does that make any sense?  What do you know of my resources?  Go speculate on someone else's comments.  You don't know anything about me except that I sometimes choose to pursue women whom I consider, out of my league.  BTW, that could describe nearly any women if I was: old, fat, ugly, broke, feeble minded, etc.  [/quote]

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