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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Toughen up, OP. You are going to be spending a night in the hotel as you want. Who cares if he whined at first?[/quote]

How you handle conflict and disagreement in a relationship is crucial.  Someone jumping to a guilt of "you want to be away from us" is escalating and framing a situation in a toxic manner.[/quote]

DP Agreed. Two adults with 3 children should be able to resolve this, easily. Things happen. People say things. Couples settle this.

If this is unsettled, OP should consider settling it rather than venting.[/quote]

It is resolved.  OP is still here complaining.[/quote]

It sounds like the unresolved part is OPs disappointment in him being judgemental.

This of course won't be resolved by complaining here.  [/quote]

Venting and discussing could help OP figure how to articulate her feelings to her husband.[/quote]

I'm a woman and think there is entirely too much time spent on DCUM on feelings of past fights and not nearly enough on getting what she actually wants (which it sounds like she has).[/quote]

Then you should get off this thread. I find processing with other people to be really helpful in articulating what I want and why I feel the way I feel.[/quote]

Sounds like you enjoy complaining about your family life -- even after they have agreed to do the thing you asked.  Sounds miserable.  Why shouldn't anyway listen to someone who is so clearly set on prolonging misery?[/quote]

I’m not OP? The main thing I like to process out loud are my feelings about work interactions. But if you think I’m miserable, that’s fine. Your opinion doesn’t affect my happiness. And frankly, your judgment sounds pretty miserable.[/quote]

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