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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]OP here.

I have to give more info because people assume it has to do with childcare or that I’m some other poster who posted above moving. That’s not me and this has nothing to do with childcare.

So, I host a weekly event on Friday mornings from my home. It’s been ongoing most every Friday for years. Now all of a sudden my husband has a WFH option on Fridays. His workaround for me is to host Saturday, or later on Fridays, or from somewhere else, but that doesn’t work for the others, and I’m not interested in moving this to the weekend or somewhere else. He needs quiet, so my hosting is a conflict.

Someone asked what I would advise as a workaround, and that would be for HIM to WFH somewhere else on Fridays, but [b]I can’t, because he’s the “breadwinner” and so his preference trumps mine. [/b]

But I was assured the house would be mine on Friday mornings. I was very clear in this, and he knew how important this was to me. 
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You have a husband problem. 
Since he's the breadwinner he views you as less..

Ugh.

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