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[quote=Anonymous]You have to find your way instead of giving up to be housewife to some idiot who has no respect for you. My close friend who has been fired 4 times in the last 10 years now makes over a million dollars a year as a consultant. She had never made over 160k a year before that, and she finally found her a place at 50.

Your DH has no respect for you and does not support you. When things are not working for you career wise, a partner's job is to brainstorm with you. And brainstorming starts by asking you what you are thinking and then giving suggestions on what could work while highlighting your strengths instead of highlighting your weaknesses. He would have highlighted the qualities that make you a great stay at home mom and then told you how happy he and the kids will be to have you home , not beat you down emotionally so you can give and quit.

This is exactly the kind of marriage in which you should never stay home. He will continue putting you down when you no longer have to work outside of home. And it will sting even more when you are fully dependent on him. It's better to keep trying in the workplace until you find a job or a process that works for you.

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