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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]OP here - married 26 years. I get logically he deserves to be happy, but blowing up my life at this stage at almost 54 is beyond me. [/quote] He is not focused on your life. He is focused on his own. As a woman, that may be something you have not practiced much. But now is the time. It is a normal first reaction to be angry. But eventually you need to move on to what will you do with this unanticipated opportunity. The rest of your life is your to control . Not what you expected to manage solo. But it may in fact be better than it would have been with him in tow. Money is just one element of your life, and not the most important. Try to find a counselor who can help you work through your anger, grief and fears. Good luck! [/quote]
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