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[quote=Anonymous]How old are your kids? How far from school are you? How will it affect your own workday if you are dealing with drop off and pick up on Monday through Wednesday?

There’s also the factor that OP may not want to see her ex-husband as much as she would wind up having to if she does the pick up and drop off on his days. It’s one thing to try to coparent amicably, but it’s another thing to have to see your ex multiple times a week when it’s avoidable.

In your shoes, I would absolutely let it play out rather than try to offer to help find a solution. There is no way in hell I would give up all weekends. Why does he only have one weekend currently in the schedule? Was that his choice or yours? As others have said, you should consult your lawyer, and then let it play out, documenting what’s happening. At some point either your ex-husband will propose a custody modification or else file for one in court, and at that point you will have your paper trail and the advice of your attorney about what you are and aren’t willing to do.

It doesn’t sound like he has proposed anything, but rather has just told you of his dilemma and told you he will figure something out?

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