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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]I’ll give you another perspective. I really wanted a third child and my husband wanted to stay at two. We knew one of us would resent the other and finally my husband agreed to have a third kid. My third kid might have some special needs. So now I need to deal with the fact that not only did my husband have a third kid for me, but I also added a lot of extra heartache over the special needs aspect of things. I’m sure if I’d stopped at two I always would have wondered what if and resented my husband for it. I’m just saying that there is something to be said for being grateful for what you have.[/quote] IMO it's better to resent someone and not have a child, than have the child and resent them. I feel so awful for your third. [/quote]
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