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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]I think you should break up with a partner who ignores your clearly expressed needs.
It's not about Valentine's Day. It's about you clearly communicating a need and him ignoring it. I'm of the opinion that partners should do their best to meet reasonable requests. And celebrating Valentine's Day is reasonable. I'm not super into myself but nothing wrong with it if you are to don't let other posters shame you for it.
But the bigger issue is it seems like you have to beg him for attention and time and you shouldn't  need to do that it also seems he has no interest in incorporating you into his life break up with him for that you want to be with a guy who wants to be with you who you don't have to beg for time and wants to do things that make you smile.[/quote]

Agree it's not about Valentine's Day. It's about consideration. Guys who can't be bothered to make an effort tend to be selfish and immature. They could hate commercial holidays like this but the fact that you care means they should at least try. It does not mean they need to give you a diamond necklace and go out to a fancy dinner. It could be as easy as a bunch of supermarket flowers and watching a stupid romcom and having pizza and your favorite wine. That's what actual love is like. I hope you find it because this isn't it.[/quote]

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