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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]It’s mostly ‘joke’ bickering but obviously he’s frustrated. I don’t blame him but it is just so hard to get in the mood. I’m exhausted most of the time, have headaches a lot, etc. Honestly if I found out he got it elsewhere on occasion, there’s part of me that would not care. I know he loves me and we will be together.

Anyone else navigating this issue? [/quote]

Yes!

Though not really navigating it; just enduring the new situation (and also encountering bickering).

But, always looking for constructive suggestions!  - with a few caveats:

No, we are NOT “opening the marriage;” no “hall pass,” etc.  not happening.  And NO- will not divorce, so that’s not happening either.

With that said:  other suggestions? Ideas? Things to try? [/quote]

You need to go through the effort to find your husband a new sexual partner.  Otherwise, ending his sexual life without his say is tantamount to spousal abuse.[/quote]

I already said that I/we have specifically ruled that out!  Not helpful.

Anyone have useful work-arounds to suggest?![/quote]

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