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[quote=Anonymous]OP - I was raised in a household with a similar dynamic. Your phrasing of "long enough to finish raising kids?" raised a flag for me. I want you to know that I have wished for years that my parents sorted their shit out earlier. Whether that meant therapy, separation, screaming, divorce, whatever. They just avoid any issues and exist in this limbo of tension. It bleeds into mine and my sibling's relationships with both Mom and Dad. It makes it hard to spend time with them. I feel betrayed by my mom for continuing the status quo--I don't know what the right solution would have been, but I know that trying to compartmentalize like this has consequences. Just make sure you're ready for those before you commit to this until you "finish raising kids". Parenting is a lifelong job. It won't be easier for them later just because they'll be older. My two cents.[/quote]
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