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OP is anticipating the sadness over getting nothing for Valentine's Day, yet again, but inexplicably refuses to act in any way that will change the predictable outcome. Instead, she prefers to wallow in her misery and post on playing the martyr than from doing the real work of marriage, which is communication and compromise. Not as glamorous, you see.

You really deserve your misery, OP. You created it for yourself.

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How did OP create her own misery…..?
You must feel really good about your own life since you just get off being mean to others.[/quote]

DP but future-tripping and getting riled up in advance over things that haven't even happened yet don't sound like paths to happiness to me.

I agree with the PP. OP is putting their energy exactly where they want it: conflict and disappointment. She'll get what she's seeking, and then she'll probably act like it's someone else's fault. It's immature and not a healthy way to treat herself or her partner, and PP is wise, not mean, to point that out.[/quote]

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