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[quote=Anonymous]Op, price out what it would take to hire a nanny to drive to and from, and add that as a factor, even if that means full time help. Even better, If this school is really important to your husband, would he consider moving closer so that it is walkable or a much shorter drive? That would be less costly over time than a nanny and allow you to participate more fully in the private school community and derive the most benefit as a family. Otherwise what is the point? If you are not close, and interested in being part of the community, what is the point- Bragging rights?

If those two variables (extra help / move) are not up for consideration, your husband is significantly discounting the impact of this on your family (and specifically you) as well as discounting your preferences and opinions. You have every right to be upset.

Translate as much of the problem into quantities as you can - time & money- and don’t get distracted by the endless arguments pro/con speciic school systems. Keep it actionable. [/quote]

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