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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]I am one of the minority of women who still have very high drive in menopause. Sadly, my husband does not anymore. It makes me very, very sad. On some days, totally devastated. I suffer silently. He talks about the future, after the kids go to college , when we’re emptying nesters, etc. And I go along with it, but in my head, I’m kind of like, seriously?

When we do have sex, which is like once every one to two weeks, I’m content for a day or two. Then I begin to get anxious about when we’re going to have it again. Then I just started to get angry and resentful. It’s literally all I think about. It’s awful. I feel like if he actually loved me, knowing how important it is to me, [b]I don’t understand why he wouldn’t make more of an effort for it. I get that he’s busy, but you always have time for the things that are really important to you. I guess my happiness is not one of them for him.[/b]

I would not wish what I’m going through on anyone and I’m not sure how long I will be able to take it. Ladies, be careful denying your DH something that is so central to their entire being. It might get to the point where they just feel like they can’t take it anymore, even if they wish they could. [/quote]

Have you tried talking to him about this? Does he have ED? Ughhh[/quote]

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