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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]OP, take a deep breath and put on your thinking cap.

I get your anger and your desire to end the friendship, but you have more investigating to do.

You need to call your friend back and be very sweet, patient, and charming as you explore with her why she told you what she did. You need to make her feel safe in case there is something she knows that you should know as well.

She might have been trying to warn you that your husband keeps secrets from you that you really should know.

Something made her think of this fling and decided to tell you at this point. She might be a hater, or she might be someone who doesn't know how to tell you some very bad news and is dropping awkward hints instead.

Unless you prefer walking around as a fool and want to risk looking back years from now and wishing you had caught the hints, I would do more sleuthing here.

You can always drop her as a friend later, but if you burn the bridge now, you can't always go back and get the information that you should've had. Finish your homework first and then decide on the friendship. [/quote]

True[/quote]

True? If that were true she wouldn't have said, "That's your problem not mine." That is a terrible thing to day to anyone, much less someone you pretend to be a friend to.[/quote]
+1. Very rude. She wants to hurt you. [/quote]

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