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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]I put a stop to my wife initiating quickies for my benefit. I don't want pity sex, and I don't want her to just be tolerating it. If she's having sex as some kind of favor, that feels demeaning.

If she doesn't want to have sex with me, I'd much rather just masturbate. [/quote]

First, you’re a loser. Second, you’re a prick. And third, get off this ladies thread, weirdo [/quote]

Enthusiastic consent is the standard. Women shouldn't be expected to "lie back and think of England" as their husbands do their business. And husbands shouldn't want them to. [/quote]

Agree 100%.  It will kill the mood, whether you believe it or not.

Marriage counselors / therapists all recommend that couples busy with raising kids, 2 jobs, caring for aging parents, etc “schedule” s*x, so that intimacy isn’t forgotten or de-prioritized to the point you end up in a sexless marriage.

But on one occasion when we tried what was suggested, she came in, laid down, and said to me:  “just get it over with.”

I put my clothes back on and left the room without saying a word.

If you truly no longer want to, then you have to divorce and set him free.

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That is awful. [/quote]

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